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Signs Your Cat Actually Like your Cat Sitter

Jul 29
2 min read

Most cat owners leave a first booking with at least a little bit of guilt or worry, wondering whether their cat is coping with a new person coming into the house.

Cats can't tell you directly how a visit went, but they're not exactly subtle either, their body language and behaviour say a lot, if you know what to look for.


Positive behaviours

  • They Come Out to Greet the sitter

  • A cat that's comfortable will often appear within the first few minutes of a visit rather than staying hidden the whole time. A cat who consistently comes out, even just to sit nearby, is showing a level of trust that builds over repeat visits.

  • Slow Blinks and Relaxed Posture. A slow blink is one of the clearest positive signals in cats body language. If a sitter reports getting slow blinks, or if you notice your cat doing this with a sitter during a handover visit, that's a genuinely good sign.

  • Combined with a relaxed tail, ears in a neutral or forward position, and a body that isn't tensed or crouched all points to a cat who feels safe.

  • Eating Normally (or Better) whilst you’re away. Appetite is one of the most reliable indicators of stress in cats. A cat who eats on schedule or even seems more food-motivated around a sitter is generally relaxed compared to one who barely touches their food during visits.

  • Choosing to Stay in the same room as the sitter is a positive as cats vote with their feet. A cat who wanders off to another room the moment a sitter arrives, versus one who chooses to stay and observe (or actively seek attention), is telling you something about their comfort level.

  • Head Bumps, Kneading, and Purring which are all obvious indications of a happy cat.


If your sitter mentions any of these happening during visits, particularly with a cat who was stand offish at first, that's a strong sign the relationship is working.


Every cat adjusts at their own pace, and some cats simply take longer to warm up to anyone new. But if a cat is showing ongoing signs of stress (hiding for the entire visit, not eating, over-grooming, or litter tray avoidance) after several visits, it's worth a conversation with your sitter about adjusting the approach.


This may involve spending the first few minutes of each visit sitting quietly rather than approaching straightaway or trying a different visit time. Good sitting isn't just about ticking off feeding and litter box duties; it's about reading what a cat is telling you.


If you would like to get in touch to discuss your cats’ individual needs and arrange a visit before the cat sit starts so that your cat is more familiar this can be arranged.

Your cats’ best interests and well-being are always at the forefront of the services that I provide, and I want your cat to feel comfortable around me and ultimately happy.


Starting that initial conversation and providing detailed information about your cat is a good place to start and will enable us to build a suitable schedule that suits your cats requirements.


Please contact Rebecca

Portishead Cat Sitter


07557 022201


Thank you


 
 
 

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